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Executive Coaching Tips and Techniques No. 40

This article is for those who can perceive a world a workplace beyond numbers, figures, spreadsheets, graphs and charts and can see and can feel what is going on what is around them and how people are being treated, how they are feeling, behaving and performing. In short it is one for the modern workplace intellect who has retained more than a semblance of love, respect and honour for their fellow travelers for their fellow human beings. Humbly dedicated to a dear friend.

Female Sociopaths in the Workplace

Modern workplaces dominated by female psychopaths are bestial, flee from them or die trying

The damage that evil women do

They hate those they love and they love those they hate

The men that manage these women are terrified of them, cower before them, grovel before them, genuflect in their presence and let them have their evil way with them.

They long to unleash the deepest contempt and abhorrence they feel for themselves on to their unsuspecting workers, people they even recruited for that ultimate purpose. When a female psychopathic senior manager or executive recruits think of her as the torture master recruiting victims for her private company funded torture chamber. There is a certain myth that these women are brilliant technically in their roles though they might have some minor HR issues. Nothing further from the truth. These female executives are technically incompetent because they expend their psycho-sexual energy on the recruitment, mental torture and psychological mutilation of their workers.

The evil that women do, those that knowingly hurt, injure, damage and torture others. This is not about those that unwillingly or accidentally hurt others but those that go out of their way to manufacture a reason to dismiss someone, to search for that one reasons to demean them not the 999 reasons to praise them. It is not about the gutless men managers that stand about and give in to these homicidal psychopaths. It is about the nature of things of things that drives these women to commit heinous acts against their fellow human beings. But perhaps that is a stretch to include them within the rubric of caring fellow human being.

Female sociopaths are the lowest of the low, preying on their own sex especially those that are more attractive than them, prettier that their dowdy run down selves, more charming than their smarmy ingratiating ways. These women are bulldozers ostensibly valued by their organisation for their can do attitude. Unknowingly these organisations do not appreciate the destructive actions of these "can do" individuals. If ever there was a time in history now is one where the means do not justify the ends. If that were so, any labour conditions would do and any working hours would do. But they do not suffice.

In hidden workplaces all over the world lurks the beating jagged heart of a psychopathic senior manager or executive who has taken leave of her senses or rather her senses have taken leave of her and who directs a pure hatred a pure venom at those that only merely hint at some superiority in looks, manner, education, breeding, intellect or upbringing. Just being a sane, sincere, warm person is enough to bring this person down upon you crushing your motivation, your desires, your will to live, your good humour, your creativity, your joy and your passion for living.

To the female corporate psychopath, to the female corporate criminal the merest minutely appreciative glance that a man any man throws in the direction of one of her subordinates is enough to turn that subordinate into their mortal enemy. That merest glance so desperately sought but never gained a flicker of wind perceived as if it was a cyclone perceived by one who will never receive such a blessing is a mortal wound enough to create an implacable enemy of the recipient of the throwaway glance.

A pattern of behaviour that crushes and seriously wounds the health of her subordinates is criminal behaviour in truth and should be recognised and punished as such. It can be perceived as another class another species of assault but this is perhaps an occasion where the law has failed to keep up with developments in the modern workplace.

Modern workplaces dominated by female psychopaths are bestial. The women who work for these females are less than human, they resign in droves, they have nervous breakdowns galore, they suffer depression and suicidal thoughts and their tears would fill a dam in the drought of summer. The best cower in shame and embarrassment before these psychopaths the worst collapse and die. Who will rid these workplaces of these pathetic women? Certainly not their male bosses.

There is no way a single person, a team of people, any organisation can hope to defeat a psychopath. In a sense a psychopath is unbeatable because they are unfeeling they do not feel pain they do not feel hurt deep down hurt they fell superficial shame and embarrassment but what drives them each day is the need is the desire in the compulsion to inflict suffering and despair on their fellow female beings.

If you want to know the meaning of despair, work for one of these psychopathic bosses. If you want to become acquainted quickly with the workings of a psychiatrist's office, work for one of these psychopathic bosses. If you want to know a place that has been deserted by god, basic human goodness and goodwill, work for one of these psychopathic bosses.

If you are in a workplace managed by a female psychopath god help you. If you are the manager of a female psychopath god himself cannot help you but seek the services of an executive coach who can seek out female psychopaths and remove/displace them root and branch from the organisation before they poison the soil of your future.

About Gilbert Labour

Mr Labour had a specific female manager in mind when he wrote those words. She is a semi successful universally hated manager, a person with very low self esteem that will never be redeemed, a human being desperately in need of a salvation that will never come and a lonely soul in search of approval and love that will never be found.

Mr Labour is a writer, consultant, adviser, speaker and presenter on the following topics: sociopathy & psychopathy in the workplace, life coaching, executive coaching, project and program management, IT infra-structure management, Six Sigma, Lean techniques, process improvement and people management. He combines all these skills in a brilliant combination to provide modern enlightened companies with truly world class advice that will set them apart from the rest and create for them a sustainable competitive advantage.

He specialises in the following industries: legal and accountancy, telecommunications, transportation and aviation, banking and finance, insurance, government, IT and outsourcing but believes that his experience in these verticals is applicable across industries, countries, languages, cultures and businesses generally.

When consumers are watching every dollar spend, when they are finally heeding the warning of the danger of easy credit, when they are beginning to save more than they spend, when they are finally becoming aware of the voting power of their disposable dollar where to for companies that have had an easy ride on the back of the consumer spending frenzy? What will companies do that have been used to the easy and free spend of these dollars? What happens when these gullible consumers suddenly become savvy?

For example Mr Labour is an expert in the aviation industry in the process improvement area. He confidently predicts that aviation will be revolutionised when the airfare to the UK return is A$1000. At that time (May 2007) if aviation companies have not spent the previous two years (now to May 2007) leaning their processes, they will be in a perilous situation especially if the price of oil is also at US $100 a barrel or more.

Every single industry he specialises in (telcos, retail banking, insurance) faces similar challenges and Mr Labour is well placed to provide similar insights for competitive advantage.

He has been extensively involved in process improvement initiatives within project organisations and in production and maintenance environments within a number of industries. He has delivered process improvement programs that provide bottom line improvement.

He owns and runs one of the world's most comprehensive web resources on the topic of life and executive coaching containing approximately 140 articles on life and executive coaching. He has been quoted in learned papers, newspaper and magazine articles. He has written a book on life coaching, Life Coaching for DODOs, which provides an introduction to life coaching for the general public.

He is an IBM accredited Independent Software Vendor (ISV) and provides software and support for coaches and coaching applications.

He is also a pioneer in the field of coaching and project management having presented a world's first on this topic in South Africa in May, 04. His paper entitled Sane Project Management, a Life and Executive Coaching Approach has created both a new field in project management and a new area of interest for coaching and coaches and one they may benefit from in the future.

For PMISA 2006 he is preparing a paper entitled Project Management and Executive Coaching - A Synergy? which will be continuing an exploration of the connection between coaching and project management that he first developed and presented in PMISA 2004. The purpose of the paper will be to take from project management principles that are applicable in coaching situations and to take from executive coaching, principles that are equally applicable in project management situations especially those that deal with project manager performance.

Mr Labour acknowledges that in today's highly competitive and rapidly changing business environment, a busy consultant, life coach or executive coach must evince a compelling value proposition, as much for himself as for his product and/or service.

He is able to bring a brilliant mix of both quantitative and qualitative approaches, embracing Six Sigma, Lean, project management, executive coaching, operational and line management, to bear on difficult even intractable business problems in any areas where they may exist.

He is an executive coach with 30 years corporate experience and is still a relatively young 47 having commenced his first junior role in government at age 17 but it is only in the last three to five years that he has begun to make large strides in the executive coaching field.

He has a refreshing perspective on life and business in the corporate world. He is able to engage with any company in the world, within his industry expertise and beyond, and provide an assessment of the issues and problems that management suspects exists. He can do this on a pro-active basis and confidentially.

On a more reactive basis, he can come in to manage any number of previously identified issues and problems that are now running hot within the company.

In either case, he is able to conduct an absolutely confidential review and make recommendations based only on selected documentation and telephone interviews with key people, if the highest degree of confidentiality and secrecy is required.

He is also able to execute or be involved in the execution of these recommendations should that be required. He has previously managed large programs of work involving major restructuring, outsourcing and retrenchments.

He forecasts a greater demand for people with his combined skills in the future especially where established, staid inefficient industries and companies face head-on competition from the full blown tiger economies of China and India with their vast unlimited supply of cheap, educated and trained manpower.

Mr Labour will be holding a world's first life coaching retreat in Mauritius in November, 06. This will be a gathering of coaches and their clients from around the world in the first gathering of its type. Its purpose will be for coaches to network with other coaches and for clients to share their general coaching experience with other clients and coaches. All in the world's most beautiful holiday destination. Further details will be made available as they are finalised. This conference as yet untitled will be hosted by the Life Coaching Association of Australia (LCAA).

Executive Coaching Tips and Techniques No. 9

Process Improvement (PI)

The management consultants can show the way but it is the people on the ground who relish and welcome change who have to create the change it and there are too few of these already

An organisation with say 20-25 brilliant middle managers who are exceptional change agents can do well in the new world of 2010

Nothing causes more argument and angst in an organisation than this subject. It is perceived (perhaps rightly) as a distraction from the day to day business of the business and beside the purpose for the existence of the business. Wrong. PI is the business or one day soon there will be no business. People don't want to do it and those that do hate it mostly.

In an organisation there are the EXECs (and senior managers) who champion and sponsor the change they want change but won't do the bottom up changes required to make it happen but they will take the credit and the reward when (if) it does. There are the middle managers where the ranks of the change agents need to come from but there are vast vested interests at work putting a brake on change at that level, the people who are middle managers and making change happen are too few. Finally there are your day workers, your drones they have absolutely no interest in making any change happen so there is no point in looking in their ranks for the change agents. Working in these constipated spaces are the management consultants, the laxative of the corporate world. They work at the EXEC level putting in place the program and the governance for change but they cannot make the change happen which must come from the too few middle managers who are the only ones who can make change happen by changing things on the shop floor. An organisation with say 20-25 brilliant middle managers who are change agents can do well in the new world of 2010.

Executive Coaching contributes to and makes possible PI and PI improves the P&L, cost centre bottom line and operational KPIs. That's it sweet and simple. There is no other truer connection in the corporate world. But the problem is that the real world needs to change (operationally) for the numbers to work. For example if you reduce your household spending budget by 10% you need to cut your consumption and costs by 10% meaning less soft drink or restaurant meals.

Process improvement must connect with and be directed by (and directs) the P&L. There is no other way to ensure PI sticks. It is not enough to improve processes and systems in a vacuum. This vacuum must be filled by the financial aspects of each process improvement effort. Having said that, a PI effort cannot be directed by a management or cost accountant at heart. They have no imagination, no vision, no innovation in their bones. They are as dry as dessicated coconuts. For PI you need creative and innovative geniuses in the work context. These are few and far between.

It must be directed by a PI professional trained in the Six Sigma methodology. Why? Because at the heart of process improvement is the reduction of defects to an infinitesimal figure and removing waste within the process which is underlying to and underneath the financials associated with the process. The process is fuelled by finance but it is the people involved at the technical, operational and project management level of the process that can change it.

Can it rightly be said that after PI the same business exists as it did before? No I would say, what now exists is probably a more efficient organisation needing new management and senior staff. The former managers and senior staff simply won't cut it in the new organisation. That much is crystal clear. They will oversee the carnage but will not be there to pick up the 'pieces'. A new management team needs to be brought in, fresh and without the scars of the cuts made to the former organisation and the associated residual pain and ill feeling that lingers after any major re-structure.

PI will cause fear (of the unknown) and pain (when the unknown becomes known) and it affects someone deeply on a personal level.

About Gilbert Labour. Mr Labour is founding President of the Life Coaching Association of Australia (LCAA). In pursuit of his worldwide life and executive coaching activities he is hosting an Executive Coaching Retreat (ECR) and Workshop in Mauritius in June, 05. This has not been affected by the recent events in South-East Asia.

Life Coaching Tips and Techniques No. 10

Obesity and the roller coaster ride from nadir to zenith and back

There are five journeys in obesity, which one are you on now?

Why are there obese people when there are people starving in the world? Is obesity a medical problem rather than one of lack of self-control or perhaps even one using food for sexual/sensual gratification for masking (?) the real problems? How successful is someone who is 250 kilos at 'masking' or hiding the problem?

The five journeys is obesity are -

Getting there becoming obese, this is the easiest journey of all and happens almost without you knowing. This journey is on the road to death.

Staying there at a steady weight, this is a hard journey because the tendency is to put on more weight not less. This journey is a slow death.

The next journey is one into hell and that is on the road to putting on more and more weight. This is the last journey these people even embark on. This journey ends in death.

The penultimate journey and the one with the most difficulty starting is the road back away from obesity. The enormous journey back is not the problem but the first step back, the first gram lost. This journey is not a journey of weight loss but a journey to lose the fears and problems that the weight gain had temporarily put on the back burner. This second last journey is the life coaching journey and has much less to do with weight loss, exercise and fitness and more to do with facing problems in their real intensity and fury perhaps for the first time since the decision taken to embark on the first journey.

The last journey and that is to keep the weight at the target weight after the massive task of weight loss because again the tendency is to put the weight back on even faster than before and much much faster than it was lost. For every gram lost a kilo is put on.

Work with a life coach who understands your weight problem is not a weight problem but a personal problem posing, impersonating a weight problem. Someone who knows which journey you are on and can make sure you either move to the next healthy journey or stay at the healthy journey you're on.

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The 555 Program

Gilbert Labour, will personally run this program. It will probably take in the region of 10 suitable people and run for 5 months. The program is multi-faceted and covers three main streams a fitness stream, a life coaching stream dealing with personal issues and an executive stream to supercharge your work, business and corporate environment.

The first stream is a fitness element. The goal is to be able to run 5k (non stop) in five months and be able to lose 5 kilos in the process. This is a modest achievement and is considered a healthy approach to fitness generally. I am a former fitness instructor and dance teacher and can provide guidance in this area. You will need a clearance from your doctor if you're over 45.

The second stream is a life coaching element. The goal of the life coaching is to investigate a number of current personal issues and focus on 5 for resolution in 5 months. One to be resolved or at least worked on each month.

The third stream is an executive coaching element. The goal of this element is to come up with five goals or issues to be dealt with in the 5 months of the program. These could involve working towards a promotion, changing jobs, changing careers, leaving the corporate environment and developing a small business. For the hard core executives and other corporate thrivers and survivors there will be a number of areas that include executive interview training and executive decision making that can be covered. There are many others and these can be chosen based on your current goals. The aim of this stream is canvass all the possibilities and focus on only 5 and work through each one.

The cost of the program varies. To take part on a one-on-one basis with Gilbert Labour will cost $5000. To take part in a group setting will cost $2000. Individual programs can start at anytime considered suitable.

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Please call Gilbert Labour on 0409 223 436 if you would like to take part. Further information on the 555 Program is available from the portal.

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I also do a small amount of pro-bono work in the area of life coaching. I belong to the Life Coaching Pro Bono Group (LCPBG), a group of life coaches I am putting together to do this type of work for people in need but who may not be able to afford the services of a full fee life coach. We make allowances for your circumstances and also on the understanding that once you're back on your feet, your capacity to contribute to your life coaching will also improve.

Generally speaking, we will set clear goals, we will put in place plans to attain those goals, we will execute the plan effectively. We will monitor and survey the results and ensure our goals are met. In most cases, we will envelope what we are trying to achieve into a coaching programme.

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